On the Resume...the Job Description...whatever we choose to call that which we do...The Wife:
Watching His Back
I'm there. First line of defense. Cup holder in a bar fight. Call Screener. Barrier for zealous toddlers anxious to cut short an already short day's sleep. Ridder of door-to-door missionaries (okay, in that instance I was more protecting them and not so much him). Author of Flow Charts for family gatherings. Character Witness. Defender in Cyberspace.
He may be the one wearing the (non-bullet proof) ballistic vest and tricked out utility belt...but I'm the Wife. And I don't have all of the messy paperwork to fill out...