Friday, December 19, 2014

20 years ago I met this Boy. And he took my breath away. I knew then that'd I'd be with him for Forever.
19 years ago we went on our first "date". It was my squadron's annual Christmas party. One by one, our friends deserted us and we ended up alone and talking (Yes, talking...our children will read this one day!) way past dawn.
16 years ago we stood together in the courtyard of the Cathedral of Seville and vowed to love and cherish each other for Forever.
Gosh, I do love an adventure! I'm in for another 20 years. Because he is the Han to my Leia, the 10 to my Rose, the Link to my Zelda, the Mal to my Inara. My Always. 


Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Just a dream...

My sister asked me for one stand out, amazing moment from our trip. I couldn't do it. I couldn't name just one.

And now? It's like it was just a dream.

Sitting out in the backyard tonight, a warm summer breeze blowing, city lights outshining the was hard to imagine that just a week and a half ago I was standing out in the middle of the Serengeti, wrapped in a blanket, looking up at the Southern Cross and gasping with delight at the falling stars.

Thursday, June 19, 2014

So far...

My children have learned that jetlag is a fickle beastie...

Bougainvillea is abundant and colorful...

Only the natives are capable of scaling the coconut tree...

The Indian Ocean is unlike their known Atlantic is so, so many ways...

But also, similar.

Mommy's feet, however, are happiest covered in Indian Ocean sand.

A large crocodile carved out of ebony will not fit in our return luggage...

But, so it was argued, multiple pairs of earrings would.

And, somewhere inside of them, the African drum beats true.

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Multiple planes, various trains, a couple of automobiles, and a few buses tossed in for fun...

Sitting here this evening in my parents' living room. In Tanzania. Still a lot overwhelmed by the fact we actually, finally made this happen!  As the wee girl has said multiple times...we are definitely not in Virginia any more.

Still jetlagged loopy. So we're headed to the beach in the morning...a day in the sun to reset our body clocks. Then a few weeks to enjoy this amazing adventure as a family.

Lots of pictures and stories will be coming. But tonight? We rest.

It's a two-fer! Blauer tactical boot review *and* a guest blogger post!

I was approached by a friendly representative from Blauer about the possibility of trying out a pair of their boots.  However, since my footwear of choice leans more towards Chucks and flipflops and less towards tactical boots, my partner in this crazy life got the honors.  And a shiny pair of boots.  He's taken the time to test drive them for a spell and share his findings...

Blauer 8" Blitz Boot (Waterproof)

Although I haven't done this on the blog before, I have been asked to provide a product review for a tactical boot. As an initial disclaimer (and to keep the FCC happy), the boots were provided to me free of charge, but I have received no other compensation for this review. 

Product review: The Blauer Blitz 8" Waterproof Boot

Product description from Blauer: Blitz® is the ultimate in public safety footwear, combining the best boot technology with the BOA® lacing system. Premium waterproof full grain leather and suede with a waterproof membrane stand up to the elements and keep you looking professional. Rubber heel cage gives added durability and ankle stability. Compression molded EVA midsole and molded polyurethane insole with GEL heel cushion mean extra comfort during long shifts. Puncture resistant midsole board keeps your feet protected from nails and other debris when you need it. 

The listed retail cost is $179.99, putting them in the mid-range for similarly described and intended boots - good search work can certainly find them for less. This is part of a range of several boots by Blauer using the same lacing system and outlook.

Additional descriptors:  These boots meet the criteria for "lightweight tactical boot," being more than an athletic shoe or "casual" boot but much less than a mountaineering or hiking boot. The model I wore had the 8" ankle support upper, so I would generally limit my personal use of this type of boot to tactical/work wear, as opposed to crossing over into "daily" or "casual" wear for my normal needs.  Based on my experience I would feel comfortable wearing or suggesting these boots for daily law enforcement type wear, for use in training courses or scenarios and the like. I would not recommend them for prolonged hikes, ruck marches, or anything carrying a significant load (although they are not intended or recommended for this either). 

Evaluator: I am a law enforcement officer with over a decade experience, working full time on a bomb squad with several collateral duties; prior to this I have a lengthy period of military service. I am of average height and weight for an American male, although I have large and somewhat wide feet. I tend to be relatively picky about my footwear, and rather hard on boots - there are certain brands and models I strongly advocate, and others I avoid due to this. This is my first experience with the Blauer brand of boots. I also have arthritis and foot issues, following my years of work, which can also affect my comfort issues in boots. I also have a past ankle injury which leads to my expectations of ankle support from a higher-cut boot. In terms of a "lightweight" boot of this style I would expect one to two year's worth of service prior to replacement, with anything under a year being disappointing and anything over two being exceptional. 

Evaluation conditions: I wore these boots for just over two weeks of duty, including "general" daily activities such as patrol, bomb response calls, tactical training, administrative functions and the like, as well during a week of range instruction duty where I was on my feet for at least eight hours consistently daily. Movements ranged from standing for prolonged times, to walking, to short periods of running and dynamic activity. Weather conditions were typical mid-Atlantic early summer, with temperatures ranging from the 70's to the 90's, moderate to high humidity, and several days of heavy rain (and the resulting mud/wet ground afterwards). Terrains covered included indoors, pavement, level grass/outside, and moderately rough terrain. No attempts were made to conduct technical climbing, mountaineering or cold weather exposure, nor to conduct a prolonged run in the boots. In effect, these boots were tested under the conditions an "average" officer might encounter during this time of year. Socks worn were of a merino wool type throughout the test, by varied manufacturers and with various thicknesses. On significant change from my "normal" patterns is that I did not alternate these boots - normally I try not to wear the same pair two days in a row, so as to prolong the lifespan of the boots, as well as giving them time to breathe and dry when needed. The Blauer Blitz boots were worn consistently for each of these duty days, with only my weekend periods giving them a break.

Modifications: The sole modifications made to these boots was after the first week I replaced the provided insoles with an aftermarket brand, and I applied a treatment/shine creme to the smooth leather for work appearances. This is in no way a critique of the insoles, as I end up doing this with every pair of boots I own due to the aforementioned foot issues - but I also wanted to at least give the boots some testing with the provided product. The provided insoles by Blauer were on par with similar insoles used by most quality manufacturers, and for many users should provide adequate comfort and support. 

Initial observations: As a whole, the boots are again comparable to many other "duty" boots in this category, with a plain toe, a moderately aggressive tread, and a comfortable upper. The most significant difference is the use of the "BOA" lacing system to fasten the boots. In effect, this consists of a braided steel cable (coated with a black synthetic) which is then tightened or loosened by a ratchet system at the top of the boot. The intent is to provide a faster method of donning or removing the boot, as well as eliminating issues such as dangling or broken laces and the like. This system has been used successfully in sports, tactical and other applications for closure/adjustment systems, and from my exposure is durable and reliable. However, I personally had some dislike with using it in a boot, which I will address below.

The overall fit of the boots was excellent. The size was "true" to my normal footwear, as opposed to certain other brands which tend to run small. In particular, the boot has a very generous forefoot/toe area, as opposed to being narrow or pinching. This added significantly to my comfort level in the boots. They were light enough that I could perform my daily activities without feeling like I had weights on my foot, but heavy enough I had no issues conducting tactical entries or other movements requiring a boot instead of an athletic shoe.

I required no break in period for these boots, they did not pinch, stretch, loosen, or otherwise appear to need an adjustment period for the average user. 

The tread was aggressive enough for my daily needs, as well as handling the mud and wet terrain I encountered in this period. I did not have a chance to evaluate the boots in any particularly slippery or elevated terrains during this time, however I would expect them to function similarly to most other boots with a Vibram-type tread. They also did not have a tendency to significantly "squeak" when walking on tile floors, which is a positive thing for most law enforcement use. 

The boots definitely met my criteria for water resistance - during both daily use as well as during rain and water exposure, I had no issues with water soaking into the boot or dripping down past the cuff. I did not attempt to fully submerge the boot to test the membrane resistance. The boots also did not seem to overly retain moisture - the membrane was breathable enough that at the end of hot, humid days my socks were not soaked with sweat when I removed the boot, nor did my feet feel overly "cooked." They also did not appear to hold moisture, sweat, or odor overnight under my conditions.

Comfort level was excellent. At the end of the day I didn't feel any need to rush out of the boot as I have with some others. I felt just as stable and comfortable standing and observing range activities as I did walking downrange in the boots on a bomb call. The combined leather and synthetic structure felt stable enough to provide ankle support when needed, but was sufficiently flexible to move dynamically when needed. 

No durability issues were noted in the time I wore these boots (admittedly limited for purposes of this review). No issues with scuffing, scratching or other damage to the smooth leather was noted, and the boots held a moderate shine well. I did not attempt to achieve a "boot camp" mirror polish on these boots, but the leather seems capable of taking it. The soles and midsoles both held up to all use without issues, no separation was noted at any point. Stitching appeared solid, and again no separation issues were observed. The BOA lacing system had no failures during this period, no wear was noted on the cables, and the plastic dial experienced no problems. In all, I fully expect these boots to provide one to two years of normal use under my conditions. 

Critiques: Functionally, the BOA system on the boot does not please me fully. Yes, it is extraordinarily fast and easy to put the boot on, twist the dial to tighten it, or to pull the dial loose and pull the boot off at the end of the day. Similarly, the system adjusts well to different sock thicknesses, and allows you to easily tighten the boots if needed throughout the day. It certainly had none of the issues of stretch, breakage, or adjustment that traditional laces have. I expected to feel pressure points from the thin metal cables, but experienced none in my use.

However, it is a "one speed" system for want of better words. From my past experiences outdoors, I am used to tailoring my boot laces as needed to my foot structure and activities - I have one foot with a bunion I like to put less pressure on for example. When doing a lot of walking, particularly in hilly areas, I might want to adjust my levels of ankle support or foot tightness over what I'd do when standing on stable ground. The BOA system is limited to "make it tighter or make it looser" as a whole, with the structure of the lacing system not allowing for adjustments to individual areas of the boot/foot combination. This would be an issue for me if I was considering a boot, but certainly may not be for all users. I will also note that it is NOT a "failure" of the design in my review - rather, it would be a significant issue if I was looking at a boot for more outdoor or dynamic activities. This may also be something that is a "non-event" as I wear them further, but I must bring it up out of fairness.

Overall evaluation: Despite this one concern, I would have no issues with recommending this boot for "average" use provided the end user understood this limitation. The boots are very comfortable, they are durable, and they provide a professional appearance for officers. The price point is certainly reasonable for what is provided. The Blauer Blitz boots were far more comfortable than similar "Magnum," "5.11," "Bates," and other brands with similar models, and appeared to be at least as durable if not more so. If you're looking for a good duty-type boot for daily wear I would certainly consider the Blauer line as a possibility.

~The Captain

Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Time warp...

And me sewing all afternoon without lipstick on.  And dishes in the sink.  


Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Livin' on a powder keg...

Both kiddos were tucked in bed. Finally. Lunches made for the next day. Bits and pieces from the day picked up, nightly duties done.

I gather fabric I had been staring at for a few days, my trusted peasant dress pattern, and supplies. Spreading everything out on the floor, imagining the final dress in my mind.


It's just me. Again.

She can't sleep.  Just one more lullaby. And another goodnight kiss?

"Love you, baby girl."

"Love you, Mommy...good night!"

Back downstairs, I look at the sewing project strewn across the floor.  I get it cut out, but I no longer have the heart or motivation to sit down at the sewing machine.

I'm beat down. Worn out. Done.

Last Thursday, himself left for the bi-annual NASCAR duty week. That same day, I dealt with yet another crisis at the boy's school. A phone call with the principal. Never, ever a happy day, that.

Saturday morning, the girl woke us all up with a pre-dawn puke show.  By that evening, she was running a fever.

Sunday night, the boy followed suit. As did Himself, who never made it beyond the bathroom for next 18 hours.

Monday morning, I called into work. If my calculations are correct, I've already burned my personal hours for the school year.

This morning, a quiet battle to get the girl off to school whilst her brother slept on. A quick trip to the school to pick up homework for the boy and I made it to work only forty minutes late. Only to have one of our kiddos projectile vomit all over the floor.

So tonight, he spoke in a tone that didn't sit well and I snapped.  I've been holding it all together. Working through a mountain of soiled bedding, sanitizing floors and bathrooms. Making sure everyone is getting their fluids, eating, getting stronger, healthy.  Back on schedules.

And it was an off tone that broke me.

The sewing project can be finished tomorrow.  Spring decided to take a break, so the girl can wait a day or two for a new sundress.

Both kiddos are headed back to school tomorrow.

Himself is headed back to work.

My hour and a half between me leaving work and kiddos' bus arriving returns to being sacred. Because I need to stop giving off sparks.  For all of our health.

Monday, March 10, 2014

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Facing the lion...

So March decided to take the whole "in like a lion" thing literally and came in roaring.  Dumping four inches of ice and snow...

Faced with a second snow day, we had no choice but to hit the happening place in the neighborhood...

Okay. That was fun. Ready for the "lamb" part of the month now. 

Thursday, February 13, 2014

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Another snow day...what to do?

We could always make a run for it...

Don't worry about the storm trooper...I've heard they're lousy shots.

Of course, there's always a member of the ground crew that thinks their way is better than the cinematography director...

With temperatures barely in the double digits, reenacting the entire film was cut short.  
It was way more fun to plan it all out over hot chocolate anyway. 

Monday, January 27, 2014


      1. To make new or as if new again; restore
      2. To regain or restore the physical or mental vigor of; revive

If last year could be summed up in one word it would be Survival. We found ourselves attacked on all sides, dodging slings and arrows, surviving.


Broken, not broken, we-have-no-idea-what-the-hell's-going-on-but-keep-it-immobilized-anyway ankle.

2nd grade bullies, incompetent principal and school superintendent.

Broken sewer lines.

Cantankerous 12-year-old vehicle.

Gluten intolerance discovered too late to save the gallbladder.

Learning how each and every one fit in our lives; surviving.

But we've come through all of that. In December Himself and I celebrated our 15th anniversary.  It was a Big Deal. Not just because, against enormous odds, we'd made it to 15 but because back in January? We both were Done. But we didn't quit.  Because, somehow, we managed to remember why we started. We survived.

While as heavy, heart wrenching and life changing the PTS diagnosis was also a relief. Because the tension, the rift, the crap that was about to cause our marriage to implode? It wasn't Us. It was hi-jacked, jacked up wiring in his head.  That didn't make me blameless by any means.  But it gave us a Reason.  And we learned how to survive with this newly labeled demon in our lives...the demon wasn't new, we just never realized it was one we needed to fight together.  We learned how to ask the right questions.  How to give honest answers.  How to regroup when we failed.  How to survive.

I learned the value of being a part of a community--no matter how small.  I learned how to reach out and ask for Help.  And to accept the offer of Help.  It's sad that it took it all falling apart to teach me that vital Life Lesson. But I learned I have people in my life who will not only move mountains for me,  they'll even take my children for the afternoon just so I can Breath.  And I survived.

And now? We've learned those survival skills.  We've earned our stripes. I'm ready to rebuild.  To regain.  To revive.  I'm declaring this to be the year of Renewal.

He hasn't really mentioned it, but he graduates from college in a few months.  And we're headed to Tanzania this summer.  Even with living with a burned out fan motor on our heat pump for the first week and a half (during Polar Vortex 2014, non-the-less!), as well as a mini plague epidemic, it's already a better year than it's predecessor.  But even if we do continue to be attacked, we've got our boots on now.  We're ready.

Sunday, January 26, 2014

Overheard in our house...

The Boy:  Why are there so many models of ships in our house?

Himself: Because your mother dreams of sailing away in tropical waters on a tall ship.  And the models are reminders of that dream. 

TB: Not because we're related to Blackbeard?

HS: And because she has pirate blood coursing through her veins. 

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

First blizzard of 2014...and by "blizzard" I mean "Snow spit"...

When we went to bed last night schools were cancelled and we were right in the middle of the "holy crap" snow forecast bullseye.

This morning? Snow amounts continued to be downgraded. They can't un-cancel school.  So kiddos and I enjoyed a very relaxed no-snow snow day. 

Until 5ish, when the snow finally decided to show up...

 I rounded them up long enough to eat supper.  But then it was suiting up and right back outside.

Yeah...we haven't gotten a lot of snow around these parts in the past few years...

Schools are closed again tomorrow.  I'm overjoyed that these two weirdos are old enough to get their snow clothes on by themselves.  Because they're going to be out there at daybreak.  

Pretty sure I was adopted.  No way do these two share my tropical blood.