tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467822147586631355.post8560003665122943004..comments2023-06-30T10:28:40.371-04:00Comments on Simply Dori...: What's in my head right now...Dorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17258322944946475959noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467822147586631355.post-53232818043102733352008-06-13T14:24:00.000-04:002008-06-13T14:24:00.000-04:00AMY, That's a great idea about the socks. I wish ...AMY, That's a great idea about the socks. I wish I would have thought of that or known that when my kids were at crawling age. <BR/><BR/>INGENIOUS!<BR/><BR/>Talk to you guys later<BR/>BIG HUGS TO YOU BOTH!--->Amy and Dori. OH HECK...I'll just send a hug to everyone!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467822147586631355.post-34918304233736580512008-06-13T10:17:00.000-04:002008-06-13T10:17:00.000-04:00Hey! Just coming out of my cave for a quick look ...Hey! Just coming out of my cave for a quick look around. Catching up on your blog here...<BR/><BR/>I hear ya on the school question. I considered homeschooling for maybe half a second. Amanda's so shy, I do not believe homeschooling would help in the least there.<BR/><BR/>A quick thought on crawling baby knees: If you cut out the toes of some of her older socks, you can slide the "tubes" up over her knees to protect the soft skin from the harsh floor. Just a thought, though.<BR/><BR/>The last day of school is upon us, so one more afternoon of the girls and then I'll be free. Prepare to move about the country! :)<BR/><BR/>(oh, and not pregnant)Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15198207373093805145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467822147586631355.post-5908995398456042692008-06-13T07:58:00.000-04:002008-06-13T07:58:00.000-04:00May I just say...OMG, wow! Thank you all for the c...May I just say...OMG, wow! Thank you all for the comments and insight! <BR/><BR/>Marit, I'm just not sure I could handle the other issues (Dutch government) that comes with the great school options. Then again--honestly, who am I to judge another country's politics?!<BR/><BR/>Melanie, having tutored in Charlotte's schools--I feel your pain! At least you're only dealing with kindergarten at this point!<BR/><BR/>Gina, thanks for the support! I'm catching up with you later today.<BR/><BR/>Grit, what can I say? I know you feel so strongly about homeschooling and I'm not ruling it out--just saying that the idea terrifies me! <BR/><BR/>So, obviously I have my own homework to do!Dorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17258322944946475959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467822147586631355.post-6125884175574153362008-06-13T03:52:00.000-04:002008-06-13T03:52:00.000-04:00i'm saying nothing...!well obviously that is quite...i'm saying nothing...!<BR/><BR/>well obviously that is quite difficult for a mouthy grit. <BR/><BR/>so i could just say that every one reaches their own decision.<BR/><BR/>and we quite enjoy the consequences of ours because there are no queues, and that is quite important if you are queue-averse.Grithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14022216340604423686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467822147586631355.post-32552584579142256892008-06-12T17:29:00.000-04:002008-06-12T17:29:00.000-04:00Don't get me started on schools!! Both mine are dy...Don't get me started on schools!! Both mine are dyslexic and find school hard especially my son. I have toyed with the idea of homeschooling and if Small Sprog gets even more stressed it might have to be a reality but I couldn't do it when he is 11+, I don't have the skills or knowledge.<BR/><BR/>I also agree wholeheartedly about the church school issue. Mine are at a church of England primary which was fairly neutral when Tall Girl started but in the last 2 years it has become overwhelmingly 'churchy'. I don't like it at all and as you say there are so many truths. I hate the onesided view that religion produces.<BR/><BR/>Ooops sorry this has become a rant!!<BR/><BR/>I don't envy you your choice but lots of kids do thrive and enjoy school as I did, so you don't know until you try him. It might be better than you think.Suburbiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05352465945711496612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467822147586631355.post-51681069437625787012008-06-12T15:16:00.000-04:002008-06-12T15:16:00.000-04:00Dori, I feel your pain and I'm having a bit of an...Dori,<BR/> I feel your pain and I'm having a bit of an emotional crisis here of my own on the school front but for different reasons...for further info on it, check my blog. <BR/>I've always been a strong advocate for Cody. I know I've told you that he has ADHD and he has done wonderfully without medications, but it has taken a lot of redirecting in the early years, lots of understanding and a ton of patience. Luckily for me, I was able to voice these concerns to the Principals of his schools and I've yet to be disappointed with any of his teachers. Every year I speak with his teacher and let her know what I expect from her and I give her a rundown of my son...ie his strenghts, weakenesses or whatever. I tried homeschooling and I, with my own ADHD, was drained trying to teach both Cody and Laken, who were at different levels of everything and care for Kailea, who was very demanding.<BR/>I think you should listen to you instincts. If you know you aren't a good teacher and your leaning toward public schools....advocate for your child every step of the way. If you feel your child is being left behind or not being stimulated, hold that teacher accountable by mentioning it to her and the principle...take further steps if necessary. I've learned very quickly that we can't shelter our children forever from labels, no matter how hard we want to.<BR/>Up to this point, I've been lucky Cody has had some incredible teachers who adored him. Sixth grade is going to be different because he will have many teachers.<BR/><BR/>Anyway, this has turned into a book. Follow your own instincts, they won't steer you wrong. You will always know what is best for your son. It's written on your heart, PROMISE! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467822147586631355.post-68988028772232140252008-06-12T14:12:00.000-04:002008-06-12T14:12:00.000-04:00I'm haunting the internet, meanwhile hoping Trista...I'm haunting the internet, meanwhile hoping Tristan will finally eat his veggies!!<BR/>Just reading your post and Melanies answer makes me feel very very lucky to be living here. I had a choice of at least 5 schools, public, protestant, catholic, very strict protestant and probably montessori (if I had bothered to check it out)when we moved here. All of them free and within a mile radius. A big dutch blessing!<BR/>I wish both of you a lot of wisdom!!Marithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00083577804369908856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467822147586631355.post-55596912174528807832008-06-12T13:53:00.000-04:002008-06-12T13:53:00.000-04:00Holy Cow, Marit! I just finished posting this--how...Holy Cow, Marit! I just finished posting this--how'd you get here so fast?<BR/><BR/>Montessori school is an option--just expensive. We don't have a choice as far as which public school they go to--it's which ever we're zoned for. And we're sort of in the "low rent" district--not very attractive. But, I agree--we just need to go visit some classrooms! And you know I always value your cents!!Dorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17258322944946475959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467822147586631355.post-81372163947616338162008-06-12T13:50:00.000-04:002008-06-12T13:50:00.000-04:00We're struggling with that same predicament RIGHT ...We're struggling with that same predicament RIGHT NOW. Carter is 5 and will start Kindergarten in the fall. We live in the worst school district in the entire state of North Carolina - a little fact that didn't register, apparently, when we moved here 4 years ago. And I am not a home schooler. This, I am very clear about. Anyway, within the last month or so, "someone" volunteered to pay for a private Christian school education for all three of them from now until the end of time, and thus began the frantic hunt for a private school. After a couple of non-impressive (read = dismal and depressing) tours, we have since decided to opt out of the private school opportunity for this next school year at least. This leaves us with the local public school as our last remaining crappy option. On one hand, I'm terrified for Carter. On the other hand, I think there is something right about people who answer to a higher call keeping their kids in with the general population. Where better a spot to learn to be in the world but not of it?Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02993421627493837614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467822147586631355.post-65626845050480897932008-06-12T13:47:00.000-04:002008-06-12T13:47:00.000-04:00I can imagine your worry. From the sounds of it, y...I can imagine your worry. <BR/>From the sounds of it, you have 3 choices. Home-school, public school or a church school. <BR/>Are there no montessori schools or schools which use different kinds of curriculums? Or would that fall under the category private school? <BR/>And are all public schools more or less the same? <BR/>What about taking the time to explore different public school options in your neighborhood in the coming year? Visiting a school might make a difference in how you look at it.<BR/>Well that's my two cents worth (or maybe one cent worth!) <BR/>Ik wens je veel wijsheid toe!<BR/>(I wish you a lot of wisdom)Marithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00083577804369908856noreply@blogger.com